Dear Auntie Katie,
My husband has out of the blue asked me to spank him. We have been married for over twenty five years and our children have all grown up and left home. He is now saying that he has wanted to be spanked for as long as he can remember and that he has secretly been watching spanking movies and fantasising about being put over the knee for a hard hand walloping. He has shown me some spank sites online,one of which was this blog. I must be honest,I have absolutely no interest in smacking him and have told him so. He has asked if I mind him going to see somebody else who is willing to spank him. He also wants to join some internet spank social sites. What should I do? If he sees somebody else will he end up having sex with them? and do you think being spanked/surfing the net is the same as being unfaithful. I do love my husband but I just do not share this kink.
Anon
Dear Anon,
It must have been very hard for your husband to have ignored these feelings for so long. I did not realise that I was into spanking into quite late in life and I know that I would not be happy if I was never going to be spanked again. I think your husband has been very brave in trying to share his kink with you. Many men see ladies like myself every now and then to fulfil their spanking needs and do not tell their wives. I know it is not your thing,but maybe you could try at least once to spank him,you might surprise yourself. If this is definately not on the agenda then perhaps it would be wise to let hubby go and see someone for a 121. Most ladies do not offer sexual services and just because hubby wants to be spanked,does not mean he wants to be unfaithful to you. I personally do not think that being spanked is the same as being unfaithful but I do know that not everybody shares that view. I think you need to sit down have a chat and set some boundaries,let me know how you get on
Best Wishes
Auntie Katie
Dear Auntie Katie,
I am in charge of a small office and one I really think one of the ladies who work for me would like to be spanked. She always wears quite short tight skirts and I can clearly see the clasps of her suspender belt when she is sitting down. The other day she made a few mistakes and when I took her to task over it I really got the impression that she would have enjoyed a trip over my knee. Do you think I should approach her and make this suggestion? It seems to work in the films.
Brian
Dear Brian,
I can answer your problem with one word. NO. But I will elaborate a little to try and ensure you do not do anything so foolish. If you make this proposition to this lady and you have read the signs wrong then you are in BIG trouble. If this lady truly wants to be spanked by you then you need to wait until she actually says so. Films especially spanking ones are not actually based on real life and you must try to remember that.
Auntie Katie.
Dear Auntie Katie,
My wife recently caught me wearing her knickers. She left the house to go to bingo with her sister like she does every week. I have always loved dressing in womens clothes so as soon as she left,I rushed upstairs and put on a pair of her french knickers and a silky bra. I was just about to put on her skirt and blouse when I heard the bedroom door open. Imagine my dismay when I saw my wife and her sister standing there looking at me! It turns out that they had missed the bus and needed a lift to make sure they got to bingo on time. Well,she didn’t get to the bingo at all that night. Her sister burst out laughing and threatened to tell the rest of the family what I was up to. She even tried to take a snap of me on her camera phone. My wife was furious with the pair of us and says that I have humiliated her. I have said that I am sorry but she is barely talking to me. She says that I deserved a bloody good thrashing and I really think she means it. I have never ever been spanked before but have looked online since she mentioned it and that is how I found your blog. Do you think I should ask her to spank me? and will it hurt?
Keith
Dear Keith
Oh dear,you have got yourself into a bit of a pickle haven’t you? Let me start by saying that lots of men like to wear ladies undies and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I think perhaps your wife is cross because you did not tell her and also because her sister got to see you wearing her skimpies. I think that the best thing you can do is let your wife give you a good hard spanking. I will not lie to you,I am sure if you have never been spanked before that it will hurt an awful lot. Perhaps you could ask your wife to let you wear her undies whilst you are being punished,you never know,you may enjoy it.
Love Auntie Katie
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